Can learning how to handle failure really be a key to success?

As writers, we often discuss our struggle with perfectionism. Too many of us live with a voice that demands that we either get it right the first time or else. What we don’t always realize is that voice often covers the true root of our fear.

Fear of failure.

Just as it’s important for us to learn to recognize when perfectionism is leading us to procrastinate (or not show up at all), it’s equally vital for us to learn how to face “failure” in a healthy manner while in pursuit of our callings and passions.

If we don’t, we hamper our ability to move forward when things don’t turn out the way we envisioned them.

I came across this quote from Winston Churchill a while back. At the time, I wrote it down to remember how important it is to not close myself off when experiencing personal hurt. But it’s a reminder that I come back to when I’m writing and putting my words out into the world.

It’s easy to plop down on the couch with a box of tissues and binge-watch a favorite series when things aren’t going our way. But the better choice, I’ve been reminded, is to press on with joy.

When things aren’t coming together in the manner or the timing we’d hoped, remember that the One who started this work in our lives will also complete it in His perfect time.

If God, in all His perfection, can continue to work enthusiastically in my life (failures and imperfections and all), then I can choose to write with enthusiasm…even if the story doesn’t turn out the way I initially expected.

I’d call that a success. How about you?